100 questions to ask your partner (fun, deep and everything between)

Guide · Updated 2026-11-07 · Pioneer Group ApS

The right question turns "how was your day?" into an actual conversation. Here are 100, grouped from light to deep. Pick a section that fits your mood.

Easy and fun

1. What's a food you could eat every day for a month?
2. What's the best thing that happened to you this week?
3. If you could live in any city for a year, which one?
4. What's your most-used emoji, and why?
5. What did you want to be when you were seven?
6. What's a song you secretly know every word of?
7. Which fictional world would you move into?
8. What's your ideal lazy Sunday?
9. What's a smell that instantly takes you back?
10. What's the most useless talent you have?
11. Beach holiday or city break?
12. What's the best gift you've ever received?
13. What's a hobby you'd love to try?
14. Which season suits you best?
15. What would your perfect sandwich have in it?
16. What's a film you can rewatch forever?
17. What app do you spend too much time on?
18. Morning person or night owl, honestly?
19. What's a small thing that makes your day better?
20. If you had a free afternoon tomorrow, what would you do?

About us

1. What did you think of me the first time we met?
2. When did you know you liked me?
3. What's your favourite memory of us so far?
4. What's something I do that always makes you smile?
5. Which of our dates would you repeat tomorrow?
6. What's a habit of mine you've picked up?
7. What do you think we do really well together?
8. What's a song that reminds you of us?
9. What's something you'd like us to do more often?
10. When do you feel most like a team?
11. What's the funniest thing that's happened to us?
12. What's one thing you'd like to learn together?
13. Where would you take me if money didn't matter?
14. What's a tradition you'd like us to start?
15. What's the best advice anyone gave you about relationships?

Growing up

1. What was your childhood bedroom like?
2. Who was your best friend at school?
3. What's a family tradition you loved?
4. What got you in trouble most as a kid?
5. What's a smell or meal that feels like home?
6. Who did you look up to growing up?
7. What did your family do on weekends?
8. What's a lesson your parents taught you without meaning to?
9. What were you scared of as a child?
10. What's a memory you wish you could relive?

Dreams and the future

1. Where do you see yourself in five years?
2. What's on your bucket list that you haven't told me?
3. What would you do if you didn't need money?
4. What kind of home do you picture us in one day?
5. What's a skill you want to master?
6. What does a good life look like to you?
7. Which country do you most want to see?
8. What would you like to be known for?
9. What's a goal you're working on right now?
10. What's something you'd regret not trying?

Deeper

1. When do you feel most loved?
2. What's something you're proud of that you rarely talk about?
3. What's a fear you've never said out loud?
4. What does "home" mean to you?
5. When was the last time you cried, and why?
6. What do you need from me when you're stressed?
7. What's a belief you've changed your mind about?
8. What part of yourself are you still working on?
9. What's the hardest thing you've been through?
10. How do you like to be comforted?
11. What's something you wish people understood about you?
12. What makes you feel safe?
13. What's a moment that changed how you see the world?
14. What do you value most in a friendship?
15. What does trust look like to you?

Would you rather

1. Would you rather travel the world or have your dream home?
2. Would you rather always be ten minutes early or ten minutes late?
3. Would you rather cook together every night or eat out every night?
4. Would you rather have a quiet night in or a big night out?
5. Would you rather relive our first date or skip to our next holiday?
6. Would you rather know the future or change the past?
7. Would you rather live by the sea or in the mountains?
8. Would you rather give up coffee or your phone for a week?
9. Would you rather have a cabin in the woods or a flat in the city?
10. Would you rather plan every detail or go with the flow?

Love and connection

1. What's your favourite way to spend time with me?
2. What's a small gesture that means a lot to you?
3. How do you like to say "I love you" without words?
4. What's something I could do this week to make you feel appreciated?
5. What's the best compliment I've ever given you?
6. What's your favourite thing about our relationship right now?
7. What's one thing you'd like more of from me?
8. What makes you feel close to me when we're apart?
9. What's a date you've always wanted to go on?
10. What does a perfect day together look like?

Just for fun

1. Which of us would survive longer in a zombie film?
2. What would our couple name be?
3. If we had a theme song, what would it be?
4. Which of us is the better driver, honestly?
5. What would we be famous for?
6. Which celebrity couple are we most like?
7. If we opened a shop, what would we sell?
8. What would we argue about on a game show?
9. Which of us would win a cooking contest?
10. What would the title of a film about us be?

Make it a habit

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