Good questions show you care about the answer. These work whichever of you is asking. Listen properly, ask a follow-up, and share your own answer too.
Sweet
- What was your first impression of me?
- When did you realise you had feelings for me?
- What's your favourite thing we've done together?
- What's a little thing I do that makes you feel loved?
- What's your favourite place we've been to?
- What song would you play at our wedding?
- What do you love about the way we are together?
- When do you feel most beautiful?
- What's your favourite way to spend an evening with me?
- What would your perfect date look like?
- What's a compliment you'd love to hear more often?
- What's a moment with me you'll never forget?
- What's your favourite photo of us, and why?
- What's something I do that always cheers you up?
- What's the most romantic thing anyone's done for you?
Silly
- What's your most controversial food opinion?
- Which celebrity would you invite to dinner?
- What's the most embarrassing song on your playlist?
- If you could have any animal as a pet, what would it be?
- What's your worst habit, honestly?
- What's a trend you followed that you now regret?
- What would you do if you won the lottery tomorrow?
- What's the funniest thing that ever happened to you on holiday?
- What fictional character do you have a crush on?
- What's your guilty-pleasure TV show?
- Which emoji describes you best?
- If you were a dessert, which one would you be?
- What's the strangest dream you remember?
- What's a skill you'd love to have instantly?
- What would your autobiography be called?
Meaningful
- What makes you feel safe with someone?
- What are you most proud of in your life?
- What's something you wish people asked you about more?
- How do you recharge when you're tired?
- What's a fear you'd like to overcome?
- What's the best advice you've ever received?
- Who has had the biggest influence on you?
- When do you feel most supported by me?
- What's something you find hard to ask for?
- What's a value you want our relationship to be built on?
- What do you think love looks like on an ordinary Tuesday?
- What helps you after a bad day?
- What's something from your childhood that still affects you?
- What do you want more of this year?
- How can I be a better partner to you?
Us, later
- Where do you picture us in five years?
- What's a place you want us to see together?
- What kind of traditions do you want us to have?
- How do you want to spend birthdays and holidays?
- What would your dream home have?
- What's an adventure you want us to have?
- What's something you'd like us to learn together?
- How important is living near family to you?
- What would you like our weekends to feel like?
- What's a big dream you want me to support?
- What would make our next anniversary special?
- What's something you hope we'll always do?
- What kind of old couple do you think we'll be?
- What's the next thing you'd like us to plan?
- What does "forever" mean to you?
Keep the conversation going
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