This or that is a speed game: no explanations until the end. Read both options, answer fast, then go back to the ones where you disagreed.
Food
- Pizza or burgers
- Sweet or savoury
- Coffee or tea
- Breakfast or dinner
- Cooking or takeaway
- Spicy or mild
- Chocolate or crisps
- Pancakes or waffles
- Sushi or tacos
- Wine or beer
- Ice cream or cake
- Brunch or late dinner
- Fruit or sweets
- Chips or mash
- Fancy restaurant or street food
Lifestyle
- Early bird or night owl
- City or countryside
- Beach or mountains
- Summer or winter
- Cats or dogs
- Books or films
- Gym or yoga
- Plans or spontaneity
- Texting or calling
- Shower in the morning or at night
- Tidy or cosy chaos
- Saving or spending
- Big parties or small dinners
- Netflix or YouTube
- Window or aisle seat
Romance
- Flowers or chocolate
- Love letter or love song
- Candlelit dinner or picnic
- Big gesture or small daily ones
- Holding hands or arm around shoulders
- Kiss on the cheek or forehead
- Sunrise or sunset
- Surprise date or planned date
- Matching outfits or never
- Slow dance or silly dance
Travel
- Road trip or flight
- Hotel or cabin
- Backpack or suitcase
- Museum or beach day
- Plan everything or wing it
- Abroad or staycation
- Hiking or sightseeing
- Camping or glamping
- Train or car
- One long trip or many short ones
Home
- Big house or small flat
- Minimalist or full of stuff
- Shower or bath
- Soft pillow or firm pillow
- Window open or closed at night
- Lights on or candles
- Cook or clean
- Garden or balcony
- Blankets or duvet
- Weekend chores or weekday chores
Just for fun
- Superpower: flying or invisibility
- Past or future
- Famous or rich
- Board games or video games
- Comedy or horror
- Karaoke or dancing
- Hot tub or pool
- Text or voice note
- Rain or snow
- Ocean or space
About us
- Our first date or our last holiday
- Talk it out now or sleep on it
- Me cooking or you cooking
- Date night in or out
- Couple selfie or no photos
- Pet names or real names
- Same side of the bed always or switch
- Share dessert or own dessert
- Watch together or watch separately
- Stay in tonight or go out
Score it
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